Disclaimer: This post isn't about juicy sex or embed any racy contents but more of musing over life after marriage.
A man asked me this " don't you get no attention from husband anymore" - I got caught off guard for a moment. What does he means? As he is notorious to be Vulgar, the question link me to -SEX immediately.
A man asked me this " don't you get no attention from husband anymore" - I got caught off guard for a moment. What does he means? As he is notorious to be Vulgar, the question link me to -SEX immediately.
So I replied "Yes, no "attention" from husband." (why would I? hmm..he's my EX!!!) subsequently I ask him " Is life about sex only?" He got stumbled over my openess.
When we were younger LOVE is EVERYTHING in our life. So when the elderly told me about " Love ISN'T everything", I couldn't-quite agreed with them. "We need to look at other components of our life like Family, Friends & Oneselves". What the crap? I was quite puzzled - BF is someone ultimately to be someone who is potentially spend the most time & whole life with you. But I didn't realize nothing is FOREVER.
Life is full of challenges, people change, past away, go abroad (away) over times. I just didn't have time to understand all these gold advise as I was party the whole time <(n_n)> (who will bother about all this old saying right?). When I look back, although I've (or everyone of us) had learnt through hardtime, I never regretted for what I had gone through and something I shouldn't be MISSED for the age it should be - PARTY!! AHA!!! In fact I glad that I had went through this phase of life, else I may felt regretted!! Whatever it's you gained some you lose some, so buddies, not to grieve over your lost but appreciate the experience which led to who you're today.
Life is full of challenges, people change, past away, go abroad (away) over times. I just didn't have time to understand all these gold advise as I was party the whole time <(n_n)> (who will bother about all this old saying right?). When I look back, although I've (or everyone of us) had learnt through hardtime, I never regretted for what I had gone through and something I shouldn't be MISSED for the age it should be - PARTY!! AHA!!! In fact I glad that I had went through this phase of life, else I may felt regretted!! Whatever it's you gained some you lose some, so buddies, not to grieve over your lost but appreciate the experience which led to who you're today.
So being Single now, I learnt that 'ya...LOVE isn't everything', not to mention SEX (I think this post apply to women more than men, as to men, SEX is EVERYTHING HA!!! SHALLOW!!! BLEH!!). Matter of fact, with this realization, I find life can be rewarding when you injecting new elements and every new thing in your life are just so awesome!!. a simple metaphor - to accomplish an effective and efficient chasis, the type of modules you're adding in are essential. Sound like IT huh? HAHAHA!!!! For example:
- I do learn how to cook (I could barely make a dish without over cooked)
- I pick up reading as my hobby (Not that I don't read but it was only small part of my life)
- I learn gardening ( All plant under my care would die off within 3 months)
- I also learn how to invest (Disclaimer: Invest bearing risks, beware of this before embark on this)
The list can go on and on, but what I'm trying to tell you is, Marriage/Relationship isn't the only thing in life but things that evolve around you. So do something which could nourish mind and soul (not necessary YOGA ok) and lead you to be a better person. Essentially, only when you love yourself, you'll be loved and the love could translate to a form of energy to lead your life better thus your little one (if any).
- I do learn how to cook (I could barely make a dish without over cooked)
- I pick up reading as my hobby (Not that I don't read but it was only small part of my life)
- I learn gardening ( All plant under my care would die off within 3 months)
- I also learn how to invest (Disclaimer: Invest bearing risks, beware of this before embark on this)
The list can go on and on, but what I'm trying to tell you is, Marriage/Relationship isn't the only thing in life but things that evolve around you. So do something which could nourish mind and soul (not necessary YOGA ok) and lead you to be a better person. Essentially, only when you love yourself, you'll be loved and the love could translate to a form of energy to lead your life better thus your little one (if any).
Without mentioning, when this Silly men asked me about " you don't get attention from your husband anymore?" - I find him CHILDISH and can't witheld my emphathy towards his life which is FULL of EMPTINESS. Sex isn't everything, UNCLE!!
HAPPY LUNAR NEW YEAR!!
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