Many people had misperception that marriage is the end of relationship, not to mention when kid arises. Surprises are luxury, little sweet talking is waste of time, time for two is scarce. Husband and Wife become the slave of stereotype marriage - They work hard, save money, buy house, buy car, baby, then save more money, buy bigger house, bigger car and more babies.
The elderly said, " Financial is the foundation of marriage, wait till you're ready." This is somehow true but not entirely true.
Back to the topic.
Worse still, some couple refused to see the end of their love, some stay on for the kids. I don't understand this, my kid could sense my emotion even I don't talk. What makes you think the kids are ignorant about what's going on? The kids play along with the pretentious game until it broke for good one fine day. Do you think kids were innocent or the adults were naive? or are they just selfish due to the uncertainty? ................Or the rotten love. Who suffer the lose and the most?
When we were younger especially the LOVE devotees, how many actually comprehended advices like this? The pledge of LOVE is Everything led marries without further considerations. God knows LOVE would die when the romance and sparks are gone. Work, financial, children and pressure resulted frictions in marriage. Continuous arguments steer to the verge of breaking up, I don't have to illustrate what ended the marriage because you're intelligent to think on your feet.
Essentially, how many marriages are happy amidst the challenges elaborated? How many are pretending? How many are struggling? How many in the midst of getting out? How many already exited?
Wow, sounded so negative. Yes I was very skeptical toward marriage.
Now, If you ask me do I want to get married again? Yes, I want to but........^^
Your titles sounds like u r beginning a new relationship...haha
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