Saturday 17 March 2012

FUCK!!


lol. I find it amusing to have a post title as 'FUCK'.

Well, it doesn't really mean FUCK as 'FUCK'. IT'S JUST A FIGURE OF SPEECH. lol. "What? figure of speech? Fuck you FarFarAway", you might be thinking. LOL

Never thought of I would be addicted to this word, ' FUCK!'.

I say 'Fuck', when someone overtake my car recklessly
I say 'Fuck', when I misplace something and need it urgently
I say 'Fuck', when I'm late for appointment
I say 'Fuck', when someone/thing is so awesome

The list go on and on. I just enjoy saying it something more expressive than 'OMG', 'shit','sux'!

One of my long time friend asked " Are you ok?" as he keep hearing me 'swear'. I said "I'm ok, I enjoy saying it, it's fun."^^




Sorry, I'm an Agnostic

I come across a video clip featuring Christianity something inspired me in this blog entry.


I grew up from a family who worshipping 'Guan Yin'. My elder siblings were 'assigned' to carry out prayer twice a day, joss stick is the ritual. whilst the younger one (like me) will help in burning paper (well, other than the ghost festival's I still don't know what was that for. So I went to google, it's call 'Kim' denote money (What the hell the goddess requires money? lol. I got no clue. Fuck it lah, this entry isn't about what Buddhist worship is. Oher praying materials like Chinese candle, burning oil etc are part of prayer as well. 

During the goddess festival we serve meats, fruits, I supposed it served as a return favour of kindness rendered by the goddess. However as I grew older, I realised this form of worship is kind of crooked (Of course I didn't tell me mom about this), as a goddess (Buddhist, especially) killing should be a taboo, not to mention serving it before god. Guan Yin Temple are also decorated with 'Dragons' as it supposed to be Guan Yin's 'attendant'. I find these are just too tedious and doesn't make sense to me, should Goddess presence spiritually, does SHE even care about all these mundane ritual? Any bible cited these at the first place? Since SHE never presence physically, how would the human being got to know about these ritual? I wonder.

Wednesday 14 March 2012

Countries in the World I




Ever since a friend told me about 'Nicaragua', I become so conscious about foreign countries so foreign that I find it fascinating. I plan to figure out how many countries I actually know and explore what I don't know.................and guess what the latter is most interesting.


So today I'm going to conduct an exercise on myself to see how many countries in the World that I could remember off hand..here you go (look, I don't google ok, this is pure genuine memory test). Ok lah, to be franked this is the second exercise I did on the same subject, the first time I got 46 countries hehe.


1. Nicaragua (of course xoxo)
2. Singapore
3. Hong Kong
4. Taiwan
5. Indonesia
6. Korea
7. Japan
8. Thailand
9. India
10. China
11. Egypt
12. Greece
13. Portugal
14. Croatia
15. Scotland
16. Australia
17. Finland
18. Iceland
18. Netherlands
19. Ireland
20. Zimbawae (Zimbabwe)
21. Congo
22. Italy
23. Germany
34. Denmark
35. New Zealand
36. Vienna
37. France
38. Spain
39. Switzerland
40. Swiden (Sweden)
41. Libya
42. South Africa
43. Saudi Arab
44. Pakistan
45. Iraq
46. Iran
47. Litvia
48. Jordan
49. Poland
50. Malaysia


My brain starts draining out. No..I think I can still go on..


51. Uganda
52.Yukoslavia (This is not a country lol)
53. Kuwait
54. Cuba
55. Russia
56. United State ;), (almost forgotten, phew!!!)
57. Cambodia
58. Laos
59. Burma
60. South Korea (Should be North Korea duh)
61. Holland (western part of Netherlands)
62. Central Wales
63. Tibet (P)
64. Nepal
65. Czech Republic
66. Austria
67. Israel
68. Istanbul
69. Lebanon
70. Canada


Ha..I think I can't think of anything further. That's it!. Well after cross check with the web, those marked in pink indicated discrepancies. 

Essentially, this is very interesting exercise and I got hook on it! It is very challenging as it seem like a geography lesson (phew I almost failed the exam during my high school), it reveal how much I know about the world. How many other countries are not known, I don't mean I know a lot and I do think many of these countries you've heard of which I may not but hey, I bet there are many countries seriously you've never heard of too! No, not from the list stated above, but from here.


Well, to make us look smarter, we should say, 'we might know these country situated at which continent at least', Don't bluff me that you know all okay.

Well, I couldn't explore in details on each of these countries as it subject to another interest to drive it further haha). Anyways this exercise shown how poor my geography is??!!! wtf.


See 'Countries That I Could Remember II'. You will find how poor you're about geography lol

So here is a world map for your reference (if you're dumb like me ><).










Countries in the World ll

After went through the 'Countries in the World I' exercise, I thought I should go on what other countries I've left out. So below are my responses towards the whole world! lol.

Ya, It's bit lengthy & messy, but that's what I could offer. ><. So if you like challenges I bet you'll find it interesting to explore each of these!! Have Fun!

Oh I think I should be using another font color due to there are so many grey in the list below.


Below are summary of my knowledges about the WHOLE WORLD. haha


Red Font      – 65 (Countries I could remember off hand, NO GOOGLE)
Green Font  – 4 (Countries shouldn't have left out, sowee)
Orange Font – 5 (Countries I've left out)
Grey Font    – 33 (Countries I heard it before but vague)
Blue            – 96 (Countries I've never seen/heard/smell (lol) before!!!!where the hell are these countries from?)


But please be sure you really interested about my views over these countries because you'll be entering into craziest post you ever seen!






Sunday 11 March 2012

Glove Freak


I'm a glove freak. Not Michael Jackson's Glove, nor winter glove or skii's.







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TADA!!!


WASHING GLOVE!!!!  =[=


So unfashionable right? HA. Well, that's me.


Unless you don't do house chore at all, washing dishes, clothes, floor, wiping etc would required to get your "hand dirty", oh not to mention kitchen, kitchen utensil, kitchen hood & hob are nasty, and these not only get your hand wet but OILY..yerrrrr..I hate lah. Not that you can't wash away with hand soap, but the smell stays, worse still it stay at your finger nails (unless brushing it, but hello, that's too much of work isn't it?), it will went stink after sometime (what will stuck in finger nails? when you slicing onion for example). Too much of detergent sometime will also dry up your hands, I couldn't stand the detergent, there are hell for me indeed.

So I use synthetic gloves. I got gloves at every corner of my house, kitchen, bathrooms, balcony (planting). I use so many gloves therefore the 'Glove Freak'. Cooking is exeptionally mandatory!! haha. As mentioned earlier, dicing the garlic, slicing the ginger, chopping the onion would stink even after soaping. Below are gloves I use to wash bathrooms, and my dishes.




Oh I didn't upload gloves I use for planting, car washing, clothes as it's too worn out hehe. I tends to divid gloves by usage to upkeep the hygiene. The benefits of using glove keeps your cleaning more thorough as the grids help to remove the stubborn stain and the foams better than bare hands ( I don't understand some of friends tell me otherwise).

Other than above-mentioned, meat handling like pork, fish, chicken would leave your hands oily and smell too. So I use plastic type instead, it's better than the 'doctor glove', somehow. Using glove not only cleaner and smell-free, but it's safer when you need to avoid being cut by born edges (Ya, due to thorough cleaning with salt and water). Marinate it with spices would be utmost reason of using glove, you know....stink.



Well,  why am I so particular about smells on hand? First I find it gross to leave my fingers stink (yes, even after soap), it means gems are still laying comfortably, second I find it repulsive to have washing over and over again with detergent, third I don't wish to cuddle my darling nor feeling myself with smelly hands, fourth I've a habit to smell my hand from time to time (damn freakie, yah I know)

So what other occassion I use glove? Snacking. Hands on raisin, prunes, meats, anything which is gummy, oily or will gets dirty (what?!!! You're a fucking Glovie). Hate to wash hand when things came up in the middle of enjoying snacks i.e answering phone, then you continue snacking...oh well, I wonder did you wash hand after answering phone? lol.


I know I'm fucking glove freak, fine, call it out LOUD. wtf. I also use glove to eat plain loaf. hehe.  




Recommendation: Do not buy synthetic gloves from hypermarket as it can be pricked easily, it's thin, it also can be stucked when you place both sides together and breaks easily in the event of too dry. The best glove I used so far was source from hardware shop, it's thicker and durable.





Saturday 3 March 2012

Dear Mr C




Dear Mr C,


I know you. You appeared in the dark secluded corner, I know you try to avoid me.
I know you. You've been staying here but we hardly met, I know you try to avoid me.
I know you. You love the place because there is plenty of supplies, but you try to avoid me.
I know you. You love to live here but you never pay rent. I know you try to avoid me.


I know your need, I know your pain, but do you know mine?
I know your kids, I know your grandchild, but do you know me?
I know everything about you, but do you know me?

I know you would never harm me, but I can't be sure.
I know you bring no poison, but your presence bestow.
I know you salvage only my little Residual, but I can't afford you.


I know you only strive for a living, but yet can't have a peaceful mind.
I know you just want a living, in fact you existed way early than everyone of us.
I know you just want a living, but you know we can't coexist under one roof.

Mr C, I know you're comfortable at where you belong, I know you've taste, but I'm regretted to let you know you can't return and there is no room for you.



Your beloved landlord,


Ms S






Friday 2 March 2012

You're Awesome!


I received a lot of feedbacks ever since started this blog, it provisions a source to deliver better contents for my readers. Thanks for sharing your thoughts ^^



" Why are you exposing own privacy?"
" This single mother blog is helpful especially in Asia"
" I'm impressed with your single mother spirit"
" A single mother friend of mine committed suicide"
" Maybe you could blog about financial support for Single Mother"
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List go on and on.


In fact, above-all are the reason I embark on this blog - I too went through a long dark tunnel before seeing the glimpse of daylight, by sharing my experiences I hope my words could encourage someone, somehow, somewhere.



Below words dedicated to my fellow SM:


Broken marriage could resulted desperation, depression thus leading to committed suicide, psychological and medical illness problem and so on, worse still child abuse and infanticide, these are not new in today's fast moving world. I felt heartache each time to learn children being victimize. Most children leading a comparatively luxurious life, however the misfortunate one being thrown out like another piece of junk. Generally, I think the parents are just being too naive, selfish and irresponsible. When you own a child, giving up is strictly not an option!




Single Parental is not the end of the world, it's doesn't warrant to take it as matter of live or dead. What you didn't realize was, if you think you're a loser, so does others. Matter of fact, community welcome you, respected you, men could fall in love with you, genuinely, friends and family supported you. You'll surprise WHAT'S AHEAD OF YOU when you take few more steps, these can be discovered via my Single Mother Gets Started.



Single parents trauma can be overcome through strong minded, courage and determination, one important key above all - POSITIVE MENTALITY.  



Positive Mentality Key Elements



1. Understand things happen for a reason. Sounded cliche, but it's very true, figure out what do yo you gain through this incident.
2. Remember it comes in a combo set- Chicken burger and Fries? Nah..there are negatives and positives facets.
3. Accept the negatives and move on positively. Regardless things happen for what reason, life goes on.
4. Apply 'The Secret' secret. lol. Think, live and do in what you strongly believe.
5. Not to forget, what you conceive is what you'll get. Think about happiness you'll get happiness.


I get to learn so much more by being a single parent, it's just a different phase of life as it tends to evolve from various aduous challenges. So what's  awaiting you is a whole new horizon when you able to overcome the hurdles. In fact it can be so fulfilling by able to learn each day, imagine not everyone is gifted to have a child, but we do.

I wish to reaching out to all the SINGLE MOTHERS that

YOU'RE AWESOME!!


Be proud to be a Single Mother, your stoic spirit would be admired, your sacrifices need to be mentioned, your beauty will shine all over the world! Stand on your feet. live life to the fullest!


The book which inspired me - THE SECRET - RHONDA BYRNE and I hope it does to you too. Dedicated to all the Single Parent. ' YOU CAN IF YOU THINK YOU CAN'.><

 




Updates:

I come across this song 'Stronger', by Kelly Clarkson, some inspiring lyrics which struck me on my way home - 'What doesn't kill you make you stronger'. Click her to see the lyrics.






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