I received a lot of feedbacks ever since started this blog, it provisions a source to deliver better contents for my readers. Thanks for sharing your thoughts ^^
" Why are you exposing own privacy?"
" This single mother blog is helpful especially in Asia"
" I'm impressed with your single mother spirit"
" A single mother friend of mine committed suicide"
" Maybe you could blog about financial support for Single Mother"
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" Maybe you could blog about financial support for Single Mother"
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In fact, above-all are the reason I embark on this blog - I too went through a long dark tunnel before seeing the glimpse of daylight, by sharing my experiences I hope my words could encourage someone, somehow, somewhere.
Below words dedicated to my fellow SM:
Broken marriage could resulted desperation, depression thus leading to committed suicide, psychological and medical illness problem and so on, worse still child abuse and infanticide, these are not new in today's fast moving world. I felt heartache each time to learn children being victimize. Most children leading a comparatively luxurious life, however the misfortunate one being thrown out like another piece of junk. Generally, I think the parents are just being too naive, selfish and irresponsible. When you own a child, giving up is strictly not an option!
Single Parental is not the end of the world, it's doesn't warrant to take it as matter of live or dead. What you didn't realize was, if you think you're a loser, so does others. Matter of fact, community welcome you, respected you, men could fall in love with you, genuinely, friends and family supported you. You'll surprise WHAT'S AHEAD OF YOU when you take few more steps, these can be discovered via my Single Mother Gets Started.
Single parents trauma can be overcome through strong minded, courage and determination, one important key above all - POSITIVE MENTALITY.
Positive Mentality Key Elements
1. Understand things happen for a reason. Sounded cliche, but it's very true, figure out what do yo you gain through this incident.
2. Remember it comes in a combo set- Chicken burger and Fries? Nah..there are negatives and positives facets.
3. Accept the negatives and move on positively. Regardless things happen for what reason, life goes on.
4. Apply 'The Secret' secret. lol. Think, live and do in what you strongly believe.
5. Not to forget, what you conceive is what you'll get. Think about happiness you'll get happiness.
I get to learn so much more by being a single parent, it's just a different phase of life as it tends to evolve from various aduous challenges. So what's awaiting you is a whole new horizon when you able to overcome the hurdles. In fact it can be so fulfilling by able to learn each day, imagine not everyone is gifted to have a child, but we do.
I wish to reaching out to all the SINGLE MOTHERS that
YOU'RE AWESOME!!
Be proud to be a Single Mother, your stoic spirit would be admired, your sacrifices need to be mentioned, your beauty will shine all over the world! Stand on your feet. live life to the fullest!
The book which inspired me - THE SECRET - RHONDA BYRNE and I hope it does to you too. Dedicated to all the Single Parent. ' YOU CAN IF YOU THINK YOU CAN'.><
Updates:
I come across this song 'Stronger', by Kelly Clarkson, some inspiring lyrics which struck me on my way home - 'What doesn't kill you make you stronger'. Click her to see the lyrics.
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